What is the secret sauce in every negotiation? How do you go from prospect to business partner? Cody Lowry—the President of Intermark Automotive—has learned the secret in his 25+ years in the marketing industry. It’s all about the schmooze. Schmoozing isn’t meant to be manipulative or coercive. It doesn’t mean you’re a smooth-talker. What does it mean? Schmooze—or you lose How do you find success in the negotiation and sales process? Cody points out that…
Sean Callagy’s Strategy: Find the Pain Point to Get a Yes
Sean Callagy has developed a four-part communication strategy to go from “hello” to “yes” in a negotiation. One of the steps involves finding your counterpart’s pain point and understanding it at a deeper level. Why is finding someone’s pain point so important? People make decisions because they’re in pain and they want to get out of it. They want to avoid it—period. Sean points out that “People don’t get into better shape until they’re in…
How to Connect with Someone in Crisis
According to The American Foundation for Suicide Prevention, in 2018 there was an average of 132 suicides per day. Millions of people in the United States alone lost their jobs in 2020 due to the Coronavirus pandemic. There is a rising concern among mental health experts that attempted suicide rates will increase—if they haven’t already. Many people are not properly equipped to handle days, weeks, and months of isolation and loneliness. They aren’t able to…
Understanding Cultural Differences in Middle-Eastern Negotiations
Formalized trade deals are beginning to take place between the United Arab Emirates and Israel. It’s a historically monumental move that’s come about as the world is in turmoil from the coronavirus pandemic. In episode #173 of the Negotiations Ninja podcast, Dr. Shira Mor talks about the unprecedented trade deals and what those negotiations look like. They’re learning a lot from these business negotiations, and she was kind enough to share from her experience. The…
Negotiation for Lawyers: Become a Super-Negotiator
In episode 138 of the Negotiations Ninja podcast, Dr. Claudia Winkler joined me to talk about negotiation for lawyers. One of the topics we touched on was that many lawyers aren’t properly trained in negotiation tactics—and many completely dislike negotiations in general. Claudia believes it’s largely due to the lack of training. We conversed about why negotiations tend to fail. We also talk about how to manage your emotions so that you can become a…